有舍必有得。
这个意思很不错，
但往往人就是做不到。
今天我原本可以将很多话跟他说的。
但是来了一个人。
下午时也一样，
为别人想还给那个人骂。
选择是大家必须面对的。
“舍得也是选择的一部分
选择也是舍得的一部分”
'～回忆～'
一点一滴的事情，
只要是你经历过的是回忆。
不管在宿舍，车里，食堂，
课室，走廊，家里。。。。
这都是回忆，
只是看着是否是个
“难忘、值得的回忆”
或相反的。。。
一起吃早餐，
午餐和晚餐。
一起讲心事，
正事和故事。
一起面对各自和共同的
问题，挑战和责任等。
这也是个独特的回忆。
人总不能留在这过去的回忆，
大家有创造更有价值的回忆。
只要是你经历过的是回忆。
不管在宿舍，车里，食堂，
课室，走廊，家里。。。。
这都是回忆，
只是看着是否是个
“难忘、值得的回忆”
或相反的。。。
一起吃早餐，
午餐和晚餐。
一起讲心事，
正事和故事。
一起面对各自和共同的
问题，挑战和责任等。
这也是个独特的回忆。
人总不能留在这过去的回忆，
大家有创造更有价值的回忆。
Pray and thank to everybody!!
not matter wat happen to us, we should pray and thank to everyone surrounding us.
""" 人生是没有风平浪静的。"""
{{ 风平浪静就是失败的人生 }}
&& 人生必须创造出不同的体验&&
##同时也要写下自己胜利的报告##
@@真正的胜利是人生的最后阶段@@
我现在在面对着“感情”& “ 学业” 的巨大挑战。
很多时候&包括现在我都想放弃了。
但是我是知道的，只要我现在放弃胜利就不属于我。
佛法讲究胜负。
我一定要获胜。
在这过程中，或许会给身边的朋友贴麻烦。
所以事成之后我们一定要好好感激我们的朋友。
现在我能做的事就是向帮助我的朋友说“谢谢” & “对不起”。
""" 人生是没有风平浪静的。"""
{{ 风平浪静就是失败的人生 }}
&& 人生必须创造出不同的体验&&
##同时也要写下自己胜利的报告##
@@真正的胜利是人生的最后阶段@@
我现在在面对着“感情”& “ 学业” 的巨大挑战。
很多时候&包括现在我都想放弃了。
但是我是知道的，只要我现在放弃胜利就不属于我。
佛法讲究胜负。
我一定要获胜。
在这过程中，或许会给身边的朋友贴麻烦。
所以事成之后我们一定要好好感激我们的朋友。
现在我能做的事就是向帮助我的朋友说“谢谢” & “对不起”。
我面对了个人感情上的问题。
在今年年初我和我女友分手了。在这期间是我现在喜欢的人帮助我解围的。但他的解围并不是我喜欢上他的原因。今年七月我确定发现我已经喜欢上他了。这让我很头疼，无助，没有心情等等。。。
还好我有前辈的帮助，现在暂时把我的状况稳定了下来。但是没有100%复原。我希望以下的这篇文章能帮助到你。我么大家一起努力吧！！！
『
高中时代正直青春期，就像春天花会开，冬天会下雪一般，青春时代对异性产生憧憬，保持好感与热情是很自然的事，这是人生必经的一个阶段，各位正踏进一个如夕阳东升、耀眼的新时代。恋爱的烦恼本来就因人而异。因为每个人性格不同，环境、状况也各异。没有所谓万能的法则，可以适用于任何人。而且，不论是“欢喜”某人，或是站在“欣赏的角度，都是随各人自由。交往也是凭自己的意愿，或许本来就不是别人可以插嘴过问的事。
只是，身为各位的人生前辈，想告诉你们，不可忘记“使自己有所成长”这个根本的轨道。不论读书或课外活动，都是为了建设坚强的自己，奠定人生的基础。不论性格或交友的烦恼，都是建设坚强自我的养分。恋爱也是一样。但大前提是要能使自己有所成长，生气蓬勃地发挥己力。就像有句话说“恋爱是盲目的”，事实上，恋爱时的确会让自己失去冷静判断事务的心境。
谈恋爱让父母担心，或误入歧途，不用功读书，彼此成了障碍，彼此受害，这是最不幸得了。我想那位母亲是怕这样的情形发生而提出忠告，这就是天下父母心，对自己的儿女更不用说。
重要的是不能忘记“使自己有所成长”这个根本目的。
关键在于“因为对方的存在，要更用功”还是“对方比念书还重要。“是因为有他在，我要更投入于课外活动”“因为有他在，我要更珍惜友人和父母”“因为有他在，要想着未来的目标更加努力”？还是“他比社团、课外活动还重要”、“他比朋友、父母还重要”、他比自己未来的目标还重要“？
只顾交往，忘了眼前自己的目标是不正确的。重要的是，为了达成目标，互相鼓励，共同怀抱希望。恋爱必须是产生感动、令人振奋、涌现希望、朝气的泉源。
以上是池田先生的指导希望能帮到您。
苏荣顺：敬上』
我看到这篇文章后，有些效果。虽然我现在还喜欢他，但是不是没有方向的喜欢了。
各位朋友让我们为自己的爱情加油吧！！！
还好我有前辈的帮助，现在暂时把我的状况稳定了下来。但是没有100%复原。我希望以下的这篇文章能帮助到你。我么大家一起努力吧！！！
『
高中时代正直青春期，就像春天花会开，冬天会下雪一般，青春时代对异性产生憧憬，保持好感与热情是很自然的事，这是人生必经的一个阶段，各位正踏进一个如夕阳东升、耀眼的新时代。恋爱的烦恼本来就因人而异。因为每个人性格不同，环境、状况也各异。没有所谓万能的法则，可以适用于任何人。而且，不论是“欢喜”某人，或是站在“欣赏的角度，都是随各人自由。交往也是凭自己的意愿，或许本来就不是别人可以插嘴过问的事。
只是，身为各位的人生前辈，想告诉你们，不可忘记“使自己有所成长”这个根本的轨道。不论读书或课外活动，都是为了建设坚强的自己，奠定人生的基础。不论性格或交友的烦恼，都是建设坚强自我的养分。恋爱也是一样。但大前提是要能使自己有所成长，生气蓬勃地发挥己力。就像有句话说“恋爱是盲目的”，事实上，恋爱时的确会让自己失去冷静判断事务的心境。
谈恋爱让父母担心，或误入歧途，不用功读书，彼此成了障碍，彼此受害，这是最不幸得了。我想那位母亲是怕这样的情形发生而提出忠告，这就是天下父母心，对自己的儿女更不用说。
重要的是不能忘记“使自己有所成长”这个根本目的。
关键在于“因为对方的存在，要更用功”还是“对方比念书还重要。“是因为有他在，我要更投入于课外活动”“因为有他在，我要更珍惜友人和父母”“因为有他在，要想着未来的目标更加努力”？还是“他比社团、课外活动还重要”、“他比朋友、父母还重要”、他比自己未来的目标还重要“？
只顾交往，忘了眼前自己的目标是不正确的。重要的是，为了达成目标，互相鼓励，共同怀抱希望。恋爱必须是产生感动、令人振奋、涌现希望、朝气的泉源。
以上是池田先生的指导希望能帮到您。
苏荣顺：敬上』
我看到这篇文章后，有些效果。虽然我现在还喜欢他，但是不是没有方向的喜欢了。
各位朋友让我们为自己的爱情加油吧！！！
A man, When he's really A man.
-When a guy calls you, he wants to be with you.
-When a guy is quiet, he is listening to you.
-When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he's wrong.
-When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a few minutes, he means it.
-When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do.
-When you’re laying your head on a guy's chest, he has the world.
-When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday, he is in love.
-When a (good) guy tells you he loves you, he means it.
-When a guy says he can't live without you, he's with you till your bord.
-When a guy says, "I miss you", he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else.
-When a guy is quiet, he is listening to you.
-When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he's wrong.
-When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a few minutes, he means it.
-When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would care about him and wonders if you do.
-When you’re laying your head on a guy's chest, he has the world.
-When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday, he is in love.
-When a (good) guy tells you he loves you, he means it.
-When a guy says he can't live without you, he's with you till your bord.
-When a guy says, "I miss you", he misses you more than you could have ever missed him or anything else.
How to love a girl you like.
Every girl dreams that one day she will find a guy that does these things for her. Even the smallest action can have the BIGGEST impact in someone’s life.
• give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
• leave her cute text notes.
• kiss her in front of your friends.
• tell her she looks beautiful.
• look into her eyes when you talk to her.
• let her mess with your hair.
• touch her hair.
• just walk around with her.
• FORGIVE her for her MISTAKES.
• look at her like she's the only girl you see.
• tackle her even when she says stop.
• hold her hand when you're around your friends.
be the one to take her hand, don't make her reach for you
• be the one to call her, don't make her always call you
• when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
• let her fall asleep in your arms.
• get her mad, then kiss her.
• tease her and let her tease you back.
• stay up all night with her when she's sick.
• watch her favorite movie with her.
• kiss her forehead.
• give her the world.
• write her letters.
• let her wear your clothes.
• when she's sad, hang out with her.
• let her know she's important.
• let her take all the photos she wants of you.
• kiss her in the pouring rain.
• when you fall in love with her, tell her.
• and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved someone before.
These not a dream, you canmake it. Just with brave to make it..
Please remember don't try too lie your girl.
*this not my article. I just modify it. Thank for view my blog.
• give her one of your t-shirts to sleep in.
• leave her cute text notes.
• kiss her in front of your friends.
• tell her she looks beautiful.
• look into her eyes when you talk to her.
• let her mess with your hair.
• touch her hair.
• just walk around with her.
• FORGIVE her for her MISTAKES.
• look at her like she's the only girl you see.
• tackle her even when she says stop.
• hold her hand when you're around your friends.
be the one to take her hand, don't make her reach for you
• be the one to call her, don't make her always call you
• when she starts swearing at you, tell her you love her.
• let her fall asleep in your arms.
• get her mad, then kiss her.
• tease her and let her tease you back.
• stay up all night with her when she's sick.
• watch her favorite movie with her.
• kiss her forehead.
• give her the world.
• write her letters.
• let her wear your clothes.
• when she's sad, hang out with her.
• let her know she's important.
• let her take all the photos she wants of you.
• kiss her in the pouring rain.
• when you fall in love with her, tell her.
• and when you tell her, love her like you've never loved someone before.
These not a dream, you canmake it. Just with brave to make it..
Please remember don't try too lie your girl.
*this not my article. I just modify it. Thank for view my blog.
This is a lesson of LOVE
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. This is the concept " cause and effect".
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They case to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
*this not my article. i just copy from my frienster's friend.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. This is the concept " cause and effect".
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They case to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
*this not my article. i just copy from my frienster's friend.
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